Simi Osomo Disinvites her friends from her Wedding

She wrote “I’m emailing in regards to my bachelorette party in Vegas. I communicated with you on different occasions beforehand and at no point did you tell me you couldn't make it or at least mention your reasons for not
showing up.

    “Titi spent a lot of time, effort and money planning the Vegas trip, with a lot on the itinerary already paid for, but you couldn't be considerate enough to respond to the final email confirming arrival dates and times saying you couldn't make it. ”
     “After careful thought of your actions towards me, I would like to let you know formally that you are not invited to Sidney and I’s wedding. I would like to share it with the ones who truly care and support me – friends I can count on, who equally hold me in high regard. ”
      However, one of the friends responded to her spat this way: “She invited a few close female pals but she wasn't paying for accommodation or flight and most of them didn't think it was worth it.
    “It was a bachelorrette party, not a wedding and Vegas is an expensive place to visit if you didn't plan for it” she told LIB.
Dear Simi, we think it's unfair to dis-invite your friends to your wedding simply because they missed your bachelorette party...it's ridiculous and kinda childish! 
     Dr Sid and Osomo had their wedding introduction on Sunday, December 8, 2013.
   cheree...which one is 'dis-inviting' is it by force to come to America? lol *claphands* i swear i don't get it.